What is Love? Since the time the English word has
been invented to this day, there have been so many explanations about
love. Questions about love and its definitions abounds in many written
articles about human emotions that tells something about love and the
happiness and sadness that it brings . The human emotion that is called
love has also inspired writers to write stories of human success and
tragedies caused by love. Stories that would combine love with other
human emotions such as hatred, jealousy and loneliness and even greed,
has now become the standard that would make a story a good read and a
movie that would be a good watch.
Indeed, how do we define love?
Experts would say that love encompasses a wide ranging human emotions,
attitude and experiences that would be relevant to the human sense of
caring and even sexual stimulation. In this regard, the word love can
thus mean something related to happiness, pleasure and can cover
anything from spiritual, maternal and even physical attraction to
another person. This wide and prevalent coverage of human tendency
towards love as an emotion has resulted to various suggestions and
explanation as to the meaning of love.
Attempts at defining love
in its concrete and abstract forms can be sufficient in making several
books. This is how we humans perceived this seemingly indescribable
emotion that is love. The simplicity and intricacy of various meanings
plus the complexity of varied human emotions simply will make it too
difficult to give the right and the most appropriate meaning for the
word love. It would be therefore better to just forget about looking
for the most appropriate description about the meaning of love. The
best meaning of love is not how others explain it, but how you explain
the meaning of your feelings toward a person you love. In other words,
each one of us has his own meaning about what is love.
The many
forms of love would include maternal love, sexual love, material love,
spiritual love, platonic love and many other forms of love. Maternal
love is of course the most basic kind of love as it involves our love
for our parents. Sexual love would be the affection between couples for
the creation of their child. Material and spiritual love will be our
inherent love for material possession and spiritual upliftment.
As
there are varied kinds of love, so do are the explanations for them.
Aside from the fact that there are many kinds of love, people sometimes
would try to give some more meaning to a particular kind of love. Like
for example your love for your wife. We can say that since you love
your wife, the feelings that you have for her would be affectionate and
sexual love. And once you do not want your wife to mingle with other
people since she is already your wife, then it would be termed as a
possessive kind of love. If both of you are so passionate with each
other, then we can call your love as a kind of passionate love.
Love
they say is what makes the world go round. And if you are in love, you
will surely feel the happiness all around you especially when the
person you love is near besides you.