Here is relationship advice women can count on: be
real and keep a man's attention the natural way. So called
"relationship experts" supposedly teach women how to get a man's
attention. What they do not tell you is what to do with him once you
have his attention, how to keep his attention, or how to make him want
to stay the night more than once. It is true that men are more visual
and physical beings who typically hide their fears and insecurities,
but that is only because all his life, it is what he has been told to
do.
Ladies, men have feelings too. Beneath the mask we wear to
keep ahead of the pack, we want the same things you do, we just
approach it differently. Women seek affection, men seek attention.
Women want to be held, men want to know you are there, somewhere. A man
will not always tell you when you have become someone special to them.
For men, the more you stick around, the more he will assume you will
know it.
If you are ready to make the next move in your
relationship, do not assume he feels the same way at the same time. Do
not try to pressure a man into commitment. The moment he feels
smothered, he will run, pull away, or even change his phone number.
There are stages in a relationship and they must all run their course
before your man will be ready to commit. Do not rush through them, the
slow and steady way is what will keep both of you moving forward.
If
a man wants to take the relationship further, he will let you know. In
the meantime, being happy with yourself and knowing yourself is a great
turn on for him. Do not sell yourself short. There are things about you
that attracted him to you in the first place. Keep being you and do not
let yourself go. The more he sees how beautiful and confident you are,
the more he will want to be with you.
Remember, no man is
perfect. Flowers need water and sunlight to grow. A woman's tender
heart and patient soul is what a man needs to bloom. That is relationship advice women can count on.
Monte Jamison,
Founder
PickMySpouse
CommonSenseNation
© 2009
I
give relationship advice women can count on by being real. Men and
women are different and need different relationship advice. I have
helped women around the world to achieve better, more fulfilling, and
lasting relationships by teaching them to dig deep and be honest with
who they are. Once you know who you are, you can fill your life with
people who make you happy. Read my relationship book
and you will see what I mean. My advice is fresh, new, tried, and true.
I am a happy man. I can teach you how to be happy, and how to make your
man happy in the process
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